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Clap Loud. Clap Early. Clap Even When It’s Not You

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Let’s talk about something we pretend to be good at but low-key struggle with… Celebrating other people’s wins. Not the fake “🔥🔥🔥 proud of you bro” in the comments while secretly calculating why it wasn’t you. Not the “Congrats!” followed by a subject change back to yourself. Not the silent scroll past their announcement because it stings. I’m talking about real celebration. The kind that costs your ego something. Because here’s the truth: If someone else’s success irritates you more than it inspires you, that’s not about them. That’s internal Wi-Fi issues. Reset your router. Why It’s Hard (Let’s Be Honest) When someone levels up, it forces us to confront our own position. They launched the business. They got the promotion. They published the book. They bought the house. They got married. They made the comeback. And instead of thinking, “If they can, I can,” we sometimes think, “Why them?” Comparison is loud. Insecurity is sneaky. And ego? Ego hates being se...

5 Signs Your Emotions Are Running Your Life

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  Short Story Man driving down a road Woman driving up same road Woman yells out the window, PIG! Man yells out the window BITCH! Man turns corner and crashes into a HUGE PIG  in the middle of the road and DIES. End of Story You say things you regret when upset You make decisions to “feel better” short-term You avoid hard conversations Your productivity drops when your mood drops You blame feelings instead of fixing habits Emotions are real. But they make terrible leaders. Want the cure? Click the link below and:  Take back control of your reactions and results

Your Mood Should Not Control Your Mission

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If your productivity depends on your mood… you’re in trouble. Motivation comes and goes. Discipline shows up whether you feel like it or not. Your goals don’t care how you feel today. Your responsibilities don’t pause because you're “not in the mood.” High performers don’t wait to feel inspired. They move — and let the feelings catch up later. If you’re tired of starting strong and fading fast: Get this Book Now

When the Polls Are Quiet but WhatsApp Is Loud

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When the Polls Are Quiet but WhatsApp Is Loud Yesterday in Barbados , the ballot boxes were ready. The polling stations were open. The ink was waiting. But the turnout? Let’s just say… the line at Chefette probably had more traffic than some polling stations. Now before anybody tightens up and says, “Here he goes getting political,” relax. This isn’t about yellow vs blue, bees vs dees or whatever the other side is today. This is about something deeper. This is about participation. This is about ownership. This is about whether we are spectators… or shareholders in our own country. The Case for “Why People Didn’t Vote” Let’s be fair. There are reasons people stay home. Some will say: “Nothing changes anyway.” “They’re all the same.” “My one vote doesn’t matter.” “I’m busy.” “I forgot.” “I thought it was next week.” (Classic.) And honestly? Some of those feelings come from real frustration. People get tired of promises. Tired of speeches. Tired of manifesto...