King K Unfiltered

I was tempted yesterday to write about the elections in Barbados and again this morning the thought crossed my mind.  However, we will speak about this at a later date once more info is gathered! Being real - Everyone  loves a “God is good” testimony after the storm. But when you’re in the middle of the mess? Bills stacking. Friends acting funny. Health shaky. Plans collapsing like cheap lawn chairs. That’s when faith feels less like a vibe and more like a workout. And that’s exactly why the story of Job hits different. Job wasn’t losing because he messed up. He was losing while doing everything right. The Job  story starts with him being wealthy, respected, healthy, and spiritually solid. Then, in a twist that would make any movie director jealous, God allows Satan to test him — taking his wealth, his children, his health… everything except his life. Imagine that. No warning. No explanation. No “this is for your growth” memo. Just loss after loss after loss. ...

Try this today: Before responding to anything emotional — pause for 10 seconds. Not because the other person deserves it. Because your future deserves better decisions . That pause is where power lives. Reacting is easy. Responding is leadership. You don’t lose control in big moments. You lose it in tiny, repeated emotional slips. Master the pause → Master your outcomes. Learn how to build emotional control that actually works in real life: Get the book Today

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I once reacted in the moment instead of responding with control — and it cost me more than money. It cost me leverage, credibility, and a better outcome. Here’s the truth nobody likes to admit: Most of our biggest regrets didn’t come from bad plans. They came from emotional reactions in heated moments. A comment triggers you. A situation frustrates you. Someone disrespects you. And instead of pausing, you fire back. It feels powerful in the moment… but expensive in the long run. Emotional reactions are temporary relief with long-term consequences. Discipline is the opposite — temporary discomfort with long-term rewards. The people winning in life aren’t less emotional. They’re just better at managing when and how those emotions show up . If you’ve ever said “I shouldn’t have reacted like that,” you need this book. Get Emotional Book Here