Kind but Not Nice: Love, Business, and the Power of Intentional Relationships

Valentine’s Day is often seen as a celebration of love—roses, chocolates, and sweet words wrapped in ribbons of affection. But beyond the romance, there’s a deeper lesson about relationships, not just in love but in business and life: the difference between being kind and being nice . For years, I used to believe that being “nice” was the way to build strong connections—whether with partners, friends, employees, or customers. But I learned that niceness is often surface-level; kindness, on the other hand, is intentional, honest, and built to last . Love and Business Have More in Common Than You Think Great relationships—whether in love or business—aren’t about constant agreement or avoiding discomfort. They thrive on: 💡 Honest Communication – Just as a successful business doesn’t thrive on false promises, neither do relationships. Saying what needs to be said, even when it’s uncomfortable, is a form of true kindness. 💡 Consistency Over Grand Gestures – In both love and business, it...